Raj 3rd October 2023

In cherished memory of a remarkable woman, our beloved Nani-ji, whose presence graced this world from 1926 until the day she departed from us. She wasn't just a grandmother, she embodied the roles of a matriarch (as we all continue to say), a guiding light, and the unifying force that bound our family together. Her legacy will forever be imprinted in the hearts and minds of all who were fortunate enough to have known her. Nani-ji was a woman of unparalleled qualities – kindness, gentleness, strength, and unwavering independence. Her life served as a testament to the values she held dear, and she carried herself with grace and dignity throughout the years. As the mother of seven children and the wife of her husband, our devoted and admirable Nana-Ji, she bore the immense responsibility of nurturing and raising her family, leaving an imperishable mark not only on her children but also on her grandchildren andddd great-grandchildren! The memories my brother and I shared as children and young adults, embarking on our monthly pilgrimage to Ilford for over 15 years, are a testament to her remarkable ability to infuse joy into every moment. From singing the Batman theme song while passing through THAT tunnel to catching sight of the iconic BT tower, we knew we were about to enter a world of adventure, laughter, and cherished family moments with our cousins, Massi, Mama, Mami, and not forgetting the obligatory trip to the Blockbusters! These memories vividly reflect the love and warmth that radiated from Nani-ji. As the years passed and circumstances evolved, I must admit that I didn't always make the effort to see Nani-ji as often as I would have liked, which I regret. Life's challenges, combined with the isolating impact of the pandemic, created physical distances. Nevertheless, my love and affection for her remained unwavering. It serves as a poignant reminder that love transcends physical presence, and I truly hope that Nani-ji was aware of the profound depth of my love for her. Please lets not dwell on the void left by her departure, let us come together as a family to celebrate the extraordinary life of a genuine icon. Nani-ji's resilience, wisdom, and boundless love have forged a legacy that will endure for generations to come. She laid the foundation upon which our family's love was built, and her memory will forever be a guiding light in all our lives. Now, as we bid Nani-ji farewell and utter the sacred words, "Waheguru," may her soul find serenity. May her legacy of love and togetherness continue to illuminate the hearts of us all. Though she may no longer be with us in the physical sense, her spirit will forever live on in the love and unity that has ALWAYS defined our family. Nani-ji's love and legacy will always be cherished and celebrated, residing in our hearts and minds, forever and always. <3 Waheguru.